Dark side of the picture..

Well I know it’s an odd name for a blog ..but then whose bothered!
Some time back I read a book in which the writer insisted to make a point that how if we tried to see the situations from not only our own perspective but also try to understand the other persons point of view..how two people could be seeing the same thing ,getting a contrasting view of it and yet both can be right ,its just that we don’t try to see how or from where the other person is seeing the picture .
Now this opens doors for so many things that id like ponder on, may be because I have had problems in understanding other people’s point of view and may be I am one of the kinds who see things as black and white, without keeping any thought for the grey!
The theory which I read; almost convinced me that there is no absolute truth in this world ,its just our own version of truth; what we accept as being the true might be the biggest lie for someone else. How can we make ourselves understand the other persons point of view ,it would leave no room for argument in life if we started seeing and understanding other peoples point of view then who would see and understand our point of view and how are we going to defend it ? There would be no argument in life and no one to blame for anything and most of all in the end why bother to have a point of view when eventually you are ready to get convinced by the other views as well.
Just expanding this chaos a little more, there won’t be any thing as a favorite song because we would be so open to the idea of other’s perspectives that we would be busy trying to understand why the other person likes this other song, which we so totally hate!
But I think the best part of it would be that we might end up hurting our selves less; that would be a major plus because we would then try and realize the reasons why the person acted in the manner and ended up hurting us.!!
Well that’s a weird blog for a starter….but I would still post it because I might come up with something better later and I can stand criticism…and after all people should also understand my point of view ;isn’t it how its suppose to be !:)

Apetizer

When i deleted my orkut account for weird reasons ;i made up my mind that i will not sign up for anyother thing .Ill just remain a user of hotmail or at most yahoo.
As they say ,old habbits die hard ..may be this is what led me to make a new account here.
I dont even know if i would be motivated or bold enough to paste my writings here ...but then at least it proovs one thing to me,i am still not old enough not to give in occasionaly to my instincts.
Lets see how this will proceed...